This is something important everyone should keep in mind.
Never Take Friendship Personal!
Ok, So basically the title of this post speaks for itself. But it is really important. If you are friends with a guy, and no matter what the circumstances are, never get your heart involved unless you are going out with him. Which means, unless you both are committed(going out), doing allow yourself to get hurt! If there is no commitment involved, then don't allow yourself to get emotionally involved. I've heard story upon story of girls getting hurt because the guy they were friends with(and they had a crush on) is dating another girl.
The Painful truth is, Guys will date girls even if you are really close friends with him! So, basically if i can get one point across on here it would mean,
"Don't get your heart involved unless you are for sure going out!"
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Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Tip To Remember!
Posted by Hillstar at 12:23 PM
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honestly though, how do you not put your heart into friendship? and how do you not take it personal? Especially (my situation) when you dated the guy in high school, he is my high school sweetheart, bestfriend....all that good stuff...now he broke up with me and he wants to be my friend...now he has a girl...not friend...but friend with benefits...and i am suppose to play the best friend role again and pretend i dont love him...when he says he loves me everyday...what do i do?
nice tip, but thats not easy! its easy for you to say "girls don't get your heart involved" but its hard. Guys say and do things even in friendship that makes a girl like him. Its not all on the girls part!
bex is right. guys say and do things that get girls confused. but then again. honestly here. girls get confused QUICKLY by sweet things. even if it's just friends. and amber, you're being naive. you don't want to be played but you know that you are and still stick around. because that's how you stay close to him.
I know, i'm the same
...It is more complicated than all that. I have known this guy for six years...dated him since i was 16. we were best friends...you cant just erase those feelings...
Thank you for the blog. It's so true!!! Sometimes we hope things can eventually work out with a guy we are dating that we already know doesn't want a serious relationship or would not do anything to take the relationship to the next step. I must say that by experience (and not a very good one) we need to be focus since we meet a guy and see if there is future in that relationship, if not then stay away. Being friends with a guy you love is the worst thing ever! You won't allow yourself to meet other people without thinking about him and things will not change because it would be too comfortable for him to do something about it. The worst part is that it can last for years and you will be wasting time and effort. i have been there... I know, it might be different for other people but it is better to be careful and not risk yourself in something that doesn't have a future.
I have noticed that in my latest relationship that we weren't friends before we started dating. So we broke up to focus on our friendship. It's so hard cause I still love him but to not get involved and to not put my heart into it---how do you expect a relationship to occur? He's my best friend and I can tell him anything now. The feelings are just hard. Now that he is in Puerto Rico for the summer, he tells me that he misses me and our relationship before he left. Is this just him being lonely or really wanting to get back together? This is why girls are so confused all the time.
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